Sometimes I get upset when I was trap in a condition where flexibility was hard to get. Sometimes it was me, sometimes it was someone elses. A moment when I would breathe a sigh and talk to myself, "This is what happen when you married." well, I would said it in many varieties of tones. From the upset tone till the let it go tone.
For example, when I need to meet some friends with the kids. I prefer it at someone's home rather than in a mal. When it has to be in a mal, then I prefer a place with a playground, so it won't get the kids bored or being out of my sight area. You want a nice n relax chit chat with your friends, right? Especially when you don't bring your husband along.
Asking my husband to handle the kids alone is also another discussion. Is it weekdays or weekend? How long will it be? In my experience, I shouldn't be in the same area with them or you will be caught by them. And my schedule is in a lower level than his job, so .... Yeah .... Thank God, he has no job on the weekend. Not always =)
Sometimes it would be easier when I don't have to bring my husband along. At least there are no discussion about the distance, the place, or the relation between me, my friends, and him. Again, this is what we call marriage =D
After everything is fix. Then I need to wait the other side is fix too. Fiuh ...
Don't want to assume it a burden actually, just need to practice my strategies. People said you need to have plan a, plan b, and so on, so there will be no such thing as failure. You can always do something else to have fun. Or for many people, doing nothing is a great pleasure.
Have a great long weekend everybody. =)
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