Rabu, 11 Desember 2013

(Repost) Amy's story: Mainan sebagai Alat Negosiasi

Hari Minggu kemarin akhirnya aku bisa mewujudkan keinginanku utk mengikuti setidaknya satu seminar Parenthink bersama Mona Ratuliu dan Om Toge. Walau kemudian terjadi kerusuhan yg.menyebabkan Amy keluar ruangan sebelum acara usai, setidaknya materinya telah rampung dibicarakan dan tengah beralih ke sesi tanya jawab.

Eits, whait a minute, why am I writing in Bahasa Indonesia. OK, let's continue.
Well anyway there was one interested thing. The statement that a kid own his toy completely. It's his right wether he want to lend it or not to his friend. It was the borrower who needed to do something to get the owner permission.

It makes me wonder, how could it be. But at the same time, Om Toge is right. Then I remember when Malika want to play a toy that was in Safir's hand. She was not allowed to grab it just like that. I ask her to find another toy as a substitute toy for Safir. Usually this trick will work just fine.

Maybe I can use this trick whenever we went to other kids home. Well, I was one who don't want to bring Malika's toys because she won't play it anyway-she will be more interested on other kids toys. Just like any other kids, you know grass next door is greener? So I guess, from now on I should bring her toys. Not to show off, but so she can use it herself or as a negotiation tools whenever she wants to borrow other kids toys.

Alrite then, need to hurry up to get Malika from her school. Smile everyone ...

(as written on my fb's note March 11th)

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